Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Memorial Weekend

Ta da! Here is the annual Memorial Day photo taken next to Grandpa Pilgrims' grave. Every year for as long as I can remember members of the Pilgrim family have been meeting up at Grandpa's grave to decorate it with flowers and take this pic. Then we all head to a park for a picnic. Sometimes the weather cooperates, sometimes it doesn't, but rain or shine, we meet up and then have a picnic. This year I decided to do a little something extra in order for my kids to learn a little bit about the people who are buried beneath these headstones we visit, so I made little info sheets with photos and a brief synopsis of the person's life... I tried to find info that my boys would find interesting. For example, how Grandpa Pilgrim came to become an ambulance driver in WWII, or how Jeff only had his haircut once a year when he was a boy and it was when his family would visit Grandpa Bergstrom, because he was a barber at the University of Utah. I think the boys enjoyed hearing the stories.
But their favorite part, of course, was playing with all their cousins that they rarely get a chance to see. There are so many boys! They are all in heaven when they get together! Climbing trees, playing ball, swinging from the jungle gym, ingesting glutenous amounts of licorice... it's just a great time for all!
Over the weekend we joined a group of Pilgrim's up at Grandpa Pilgrim's cabin. This too is another annual tradition, but usually Jeff & I stay home, while my mom takes up the boys. But this year we decided to join them for a day or two. The weather was BEAUTIFUL and there was no drama to speak of (as is usually the case when large amounts of strong personalities get together).
We rode 4-wheelers, did crafts, cooked s'mores over the fire pit, played games and ate way too much food! A typical cabin venture...
I'm just so thankful that my Grandpa Pilgrim had the foresight to build a cabin where we can all get together to spend time as a family. We all live so spread out and such separate lives, but when we come together at the cabin, we all feel at home. Just the way it should be!

3 comments:

Shane and Geana said...

I love the photos and am really sad I missed the information about grandpa Pilgrim. Could you e-mail me a copy, I would love to read it. Also I love that picture of the boys and Marley, could you e-mail it too. How did you get all of them looking and posing at the same time? I have also been thinking about how much fun the cabin is for the kids, we (Shane and I) should stop being so selfish when comes to going up there. What would you and I be without all the cabin memories. I dont want my kids to not have them because me and shane want to avoid the drama. It is worth it, for the kids to have the memories and fun the cabin brings.

Lynsie said...

I am super sad I missed out on all the fun! I am glad you found my blog too, and I really am not that funny, okay maybe...

The Larson Family said...

How fun! This makes me miss our family cabin we had growing up! What a perfect place to make family memories!